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At times a fascinating insight to the todays gay man by a seasoned gay psychotherapist the flaws that we often have and then in the second half of the book how to go about repairing or fixing said personality flaws to become real men

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Must read for gay men

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Every gay man and ally should read this book

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His exploration of shame and the ways that it particularly impacts gay men is deep and wellthought out

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That being said im really happy that i own and have read this book because theres so much that i needed to hear to be able to work through the shame and move toward more honestfulfilling living

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Thank you alan downs for spending the time to research and explain the way that gay men interact with shame

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Unless you dont want change in which case do not read this book

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All gay people and their families should read it to help them understand what it is to be gay