The toy as a whole is hard and was painful upon insertion. This is definitely not the kind of toy you could try to wear discreetly. The remote is cheaply made and would barely work.

Super, super quiet. It has a lot of vibration modes & it is easily concealable. The multiple vibrations make every time the toy is used a totally different experience.

Just don't have the right * to * geometry. Vibration is weak, at best. Price is less than half of my we *. This toy gets left in the bottom of my toy drawer collecting dust.